I hate it when someone tells me how important that I am then says "OH, I changed my mind." Doesn't matter whom it is? I have heard all my life. So, then what am I suppose to do lower my expectations, I think not. I understand that it is going to happen sometimes but what I am talking about is on a regular basis.

How do I deal with it, right now I explode on Vicki and be resentful when others do it. Then how do I deal with it?